Care, not shame
Tell them discreetly. Without shame.
Let a recent partner know getting tested may be wise — anonymously, calmly, and without blame.
Draft message
Caring tone · no blame
“You are receiving this because you may have been exposed to an STI. This is not an accusation and not medical advice. Please consider getting tested or contacting a sexual-health clinic/doctor.”
2 min
to create a message
0 names
shown to the recipient
24/7
safe and discreet start
You want to protect someone, but the conversation feels heavy.
Talking about an STI can create tension, shame, or conflict. A short, respectful notification can help someone get tested and seek care in time.
PrivaNotify principle
Care, not shame.
The page is designed to lower the emotional barrier while keeping the message safe, clear, and respectful.
Handled in 3 calm steps
The STI flow is different from a normal sensitive message: more safety checks, less emotion, more medical nuance.
Choose STI partner notification
The wizard adapts tone, language, and safety checks for this sensitive topic.
AI writes without blame
The message uses possible-exposure language and avoids shame or panic.
Delivered discreetly
The recipient receives clear testing guidance with privacy respected.
What the recipient sees
A calm notification
No panic language, no shame, and no unnecessary personal details.
A clear next step
Testing guidance and a recommendation to contact a clinic, doctor, or local health authority.
Privacy respected
No sender is visible and opt-out is respected.
Medically responsible, privacy-first
- We do not diagnose or provide treatment advice.
- We always recommend following a doctor, clinic, or local health authority.
- No shame, threats, doxxing, or repeated unwanted contact.
- Recipients keep opt-out and privacy rights.
Frequently asked questions
Am I really anonymous?
The recipient does not see who requested the message unless you explicitly choose an identified sender mode in a future release.
Is this medical advice?
No. PrivaNotify only helps with discreet notification. For testing, treatment, or urgency, follow a doctor or clinic.
When should I use this?
When you want to inform someone in good faith about possible STI exposure or testing advice, without blame or public shame.
New: test-action funnel
After informing them: choose your testing step calmly.
See privacy-first options for a clinic, doctor, or discreet home-test path once an approved partner is connected.
Do it kindly. Do it discreetly.
Start with a safe, calm notification. No account needed.
Create a discreet STI message