STI test after a notification: what should you do now?
An STI exposure notification can feel unsettling. The safest next step is not panic or blame. It is calmly getting clarity.

Read calmly. Protect privacy. Ask a clinic or doctor about the right test timing.
First steps after an STI notification
Read the message before reacting from panic
A responsible notification only says there may have been exposure. It is not a diagnosis and not proof of blame.
Check which test timing applies to you
Some tests are only reliable after a certain window. Ask a doctor, clinic, or local health authority what makes sense for your situation.
Arrange testing through a reliable route
Use a recognized clinic, doctor, local health service, or appropriate home-test route. PrivaNotify can point you to test information, but it does not provide medical advice.
Notify others only when needed and safe
If you may need to inform someone else, keep it short, neutral, and private. Avoid accusation, threats, or repeated unwanted contact.

When should you test?
That depends on the possible STI, the timing of contact, and any symptoms or concerns. Use online information as a starting point, but confirm timing with a doctor, clinic, or local health authority.
View test optionsFor medical decisions, rely on trusted health guidance β not PrivaNotify itself.
Read STI testing guidance from Soa Aids NederlandExternal source. No partnership or endorsement implied; use it as general information and follow professional guidance.
What not to do
- Pressure the sender to reveal their identity.
- Share screenshots with names, phone numbers, or identifying details.
- Draw your own conclusion about who infected whom.
- Use a notification to threaten, shame, or expose someone.